I am a shift worker I work 3 nights per week 12h shifts, the women I work with is 58 years old she has bad arthritis, type 2 diabetes, high blood pressure, cholesterol issues, she is also a smoker and she as at least 50 pounds of weight in extra.
At 23h30pm her phone rings and its the pill festival parade, its insane the amount of medication she takes. Then she tells me that she enjoys life and eats what she wants, and that at my age at 51 I have nothing to prove to anyone having big muscles and watching what I eat, she loves to try and manipulate me (without success) to order junk food and get aggravated when I tell her NO.
Those people do not understand what passion means, I lifted my first weight at 13 years old a weider bench press at Eaton, my grand father god bless this incredible man that i love and gone too soon bough me my first set and also my first gym membership at 16.
Yes i lifted weights at first to get bigger because i was bullied a lot as a young man and teenager, but those people paid the price when i got bigger and got a chance to meet then again quit funny when the table are turned around.
But my passion for lifting weights never went away, even at 51 if i miss a workout i feel bad, i love to train of course i don't powerlift anymore, i been injured a few times but Monday is my heavy day 4 sets of 5 reps, Wednesday is relax joint day so its 4 sets of 12reps and more and Friday its a standards 8-10 reps training. I switch to full body 1 exercise per muscle and its starting to show, i use creatine and that's it.
Sadly the women i work with is a model of 99% of all people, people who tell me that at my age i should not be able to do what i do, or that i won't lose the fat i gained in the last 5 years (entirely my fault on this one eating junk) or other stupidities like that.
I just love to laugh at them and tell them its not because you look atrocious and finish at your age that i have to follow your standard. I guess over the years the remarks like this and all the mean things people have been telling me i have grown to hate most people and see them for what they really are.